The Power of RE

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Great design doesn’t mean spending mega bucks to achieve incredible spaces that look like a million, and stand the test of time.
“RE” is such a small preposition but never underestimate the power of small.
REview how you feel in each space.
RE evaluate how each room functions, whether your taste has changed and the condition of your furniture.
REduce the clutter.
REmove things that impede traffic flow, and that are too large for the space.
RElocate furniture or accessories to give your rooms a fresh look.
REfresh.
REpaint.
REnew.
REstore.
REpair.
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Regroup,
REhang
REarrange artwork to give a more balanced, harmonious feeling.
REject, REtire things that aren’t working, then
REcycle them.
REfer to design magazines to narrow down your style, but REfuse to be trendy.
REalize that you are an individual, so even though everything that the REtailers are showing looks REmarkable,
REsist being part of the herd.
REach out if you are stuck!
shaila@montdorinteriors.com

Emotional Clutter by guest blogger Carly Cooper

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4 Steps to Emotional Spring Cleaning.

June 11, 2012 by CarlyCooper6
Ahhhh, Spring. With the start of this warmer season comes the promise of regrowth, fresh starts and new possibilities. For many of us, this is a time where we feel inspired to do some spring cleaning to remove the clutter we accumulated over time. While you immediately think about cleaning out your closets, drawers and even your inbox to create space, it’s equally, if not more important to clear out your emotional clutter. It’s been said that your outer world is a direct reflection of your inner world. So if your physical space is messy, it’s time to check in and start to do some emotional Spring cleaning. Here’s how.
1. Clear the Clutter. In order to get rid of the inner clutter, you must first tackle the physical clutter. Looking at piles of paper and endless unopened messages in your inbox is a definite source of stress because it’s a constant on your to do list that never seems to get done. In order to release the stress and tension emotionally, you must make the time to chip away at these piles. Create a system that works for you and stick with it.
2. Let Go of Resentments. Holding on to grudges and being unforgiving is about keeping you stuck, not punishing the other person. When you keep these negative feelings inside, they grow and create more negativity in your life. Make a list of all the people or situations you are angry with. Ask yourself what the benefit is to holding on to this negativity. You don’t have to like what happened or agree with it. You don’t even have to speak to the other person ever again. But if you want to be free emotionally, it’s time to forgive and move on.
3. Stop the Excuses. Whenever you hear yourself saying no to an opportunity or coming up with a reason why you can’t, that’s your fear talking. Stepping out of your comfort zone is scary. But if you want to live an exciting, fulfilling life of purpose, you have to feel the fear and do it anyway.
4. Commit and Do it. So many of us suffer from procrastination paralysis. When the task in front of us seems too big, daunting or scary, we spin our wheels without getting anywhere. Then we feel stressed out by looming deadlines or feel like failures for not getting anything accomplished. Set a timer for 5 minutes. Commit to working on whatever you have to do for that time and give yourself permission to walk away when the timer goes off if you feel like you can’t do any more. Half the battle is showing up.
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Choose one step from the list above to implement this week.
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Making Your Home Your Sanctuary…Dealing with Clutter

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Having lived for decades I’ve observed a lot. I’ve watched the casual, easy going life In which I grew up and raised my kids evolve into and along the ‘superhighway’. I’ve watched the stress levels of young and old alike soar to new heights. It reminds me of the old chicken and egg scenario…which came first? Was it the need to always be connected that fired the desire … or  did the ability to always be connected fire the need?

As a designer and an eyewitness to life I know that technology is stressing us out as it endeavours to save us time. How am I so certain? Because I interview clients both in their homes and in their places of work in order to find out how to best serve their needs. And they all tell me that they need to have places where they can just go to “chill” ,”relax” “get away from it  all”.

They want their office to be as calming as possible, given that is their place of work. Which ever terminology they use to express it, the message is clear. they want a SANCTUARY that is stress free. So lets talk about how to achieve it.

CLUTTER

By far the biggest culprit!

There are several types of clutter…physical, emotional, auditory and the list goes on.

I define physical clutter as visual noise. Even the hoarders with whom I have worked ( and they are by no means a scientific sampling!) tell me that the clutter screams out to them but they are powerless to deal with it. When I go to a client’s house and the dining table is covered with  unopened mail, newspapers and junk, the first thing they do is apologize for the mess and confess that it is usually like that if not worse. Let’s not confuse the fact that people recognize that the clutter exists with their being happy, stress free and thrilled that it’s there!

I have a client who confesses “I have a problem…I’m great at taking things out, but immobilized when it comes to putting them away!” So unless you have a full time person following you around, clearing up after you, let’s talk strategy.

Get a dedicated notebook, 3 pens…black, blue and red

Dedicate a page or pages to each ‘space’, including the entry, coat closet, the garage, main floor powder room, bedrooms including dressers and closets. TIP: Start by identifying all of the components of each room, before starting the next page. Leave some space at the bottom of each page.

AWARENESS

* Go from room to room (page to page) and list the things that are cluttering each space. Break it down into sections of the room. 

MASTER BEDROOM                                                                                      

FLOOR

general..

under the bed,

DRESSERS

inside

on top

under

CLOSET

floor

hanging

shelves   etc.

Fill in the clutter in each area before writing the next  subtitle so that the page is neat.

All of the above should be in 1 color ink. The items that are cluttering should be in the second color. Save the RED pen to give yourself a BIG FAT check mark when all the items have been dealt with.

 

PRIORITIES

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COMMITMENT

* Set aside a certain time every day, week …during which you are COMMITTED to dealing with your clutter issues. Start with your # 1 priority page and stay with that space until you have finished dealing with it. When the area is clutter-free make a bold red checkmark through your list and move on to page 2. Repeat the steps you did in area 1.

CONTROL

SHAILA”S RULE says that you can’t check off area 2 as complete if area 1 is showing signs of clutter again. WHY? Because if area 1 isn’t being maintained as a “clutter-free zone”…the paradigm shift hasn’t taken place yet. Keep clearing and keep working, advancing to all areas of the house. CELEBRATE your accomplishments. BE PROUD of how far you have come…but be HONEST…no checkmark yet.

TRICKLE DOWN

Of course you aren’t the only one living in your home…unless you are and then the accountability is squarely on your shoulders!

“But Shaila,” I can hear you wailing, ” You are supposed to be helping us DEstress”! My husband…my baby…my teens…my mother…”. I get it, I’ve been there, I feel your angst and your pain! Trust me, Your CONTROL, COMMITMENT, and GREAT EXAMPLE ( plus a little reward and punishment) will have the trickle down effect that you want… So buckle up and buckle down and enjoy the ride.

Make it  FUN. Make it a family effort. Make it a game. Make it a prelude to a special treat.

Do what you have to do to get it done. Life has taught me that when you want others to participate in your dream make them part of it. Ask for their suggestions and input. The more they feel ownership of the idea, the more they will be on board with it. Chart your progress as a family and celebrate accomplishments. Make it a survivor or clutter bug game with prizes for the fastest, most organized, best maintainer, most creative storage and organizational solutions. Think up creative and fun names for each category. Replace the drudgery with challenges and benchmarks. Take before and after photos and make a scrapbook.

WHAT TO DO WITH THE STUFF

MAKE 3 PILES

1) GET RID OF.. STILL IN GOOD CONDITION……….SELL OR DONATE.

TRASH…GET RID OF IT FAST BEFORE YOU CHANGE YOUR MIND.

2) NOT SURE..GET A FRIEND OR RELATIVE WHO WILL BE IMPARTIAL AND TALK YOU THROUGH WHY THE THINGS ARE OR AREN’T NECESSARY. If YOU STILL CAN’T DECIDE, PUT THEM INTO A BOX AND DECIDE LATER.

3) KEEPERS..FIND A PLACE WHERE THEY WILL BE GIVEN THE LOVE AND RESPECT THEY DESERVE. HANG THEM, FOLD THEM, LOVE THEM…THEY ARE YOUR TREASURES….TREAT THEM AS SUCH.

Let me know how you are doing! If you need help, I’m only a phone call or email away!

More next time.

Big Hugs,

Shaila

 

 

 

 


   

 

 

 

 

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Hi everyone,

Although I’ve been in the Design / Renovation/ Staging and Custom Furniture business for quite some time, this is my first blog, and I’m psyched to share with you both my passion for design as well as some of the knowledge I’ve gained.

Many people think that great design is only for a select few, “the rich and famous”, but my first and maybe most important message is that we can ALL be surrounded by beautiful things. Beauty doesn’t have to cost a lot of money. Especially now, with the globalization of the marketplace, it has never been easier to find affordable, interesting furniture and accessories.

My credo has always been ‘Function and Style for Every Taste and Budget.’ Notice that function is the first and most important ingredient in my strategy. In easy terms it’s all about RELATIONSHIPS…how you relate to your space and how you relate to others within that space. You can have the most luxurious, fabulous expensive furniture in the world, but if your room isn’t safe and isn’t meeting your needs – it’s worthless!!

Start with a plan. That means listing on paper the FUNCTION of each room. ( is your family room a TV room, a place where you do hobbies, play family games, eat, pay bills, use a computer, entertain?) Once you have determined what the space will be used for, draw a layout of the room, inserting all of the furniture you will need.( properly scaled) Next, add in all of the lighting, electrical outlets, cables etc. that are required to support all of your activities. Price everything out before you buy anything. You might decide that the scope you have chosen is too broad, and you may have to revisit your list.
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Your home should be a reflection of you; your lifestyle, your taste, your interests and hobbies and your budget. I never want anyone to stress about money when designing or renovating your home. It’s just not worth it! There is always a creative less expensive solution out there that won’t leave you strapped for cash. (Maxing out your credit cards is NOT what I had in mind!!!) It may require making some tough choices such as rethinking the project, prioritizing or dividing the project into “now” and “later”. In this era of instant gratification it helps to remember the age-old wisdom that ‘the key to happiness is to be happy with what we have’. That doesn’t mean that we never strive to improve our current situation, only that we are grateful for what is ours at this point in time.  And since your home will inherently reflect YOU, when you are stressed or frightened and need to retreat  to your happy place’,,,that place will be your HOME!!!

til next time

BIG HUGS

Shaila Gottlieb